Stop the Comparison: Saida Boj vs. Gehgeh

It’s surprising to see people constantly comparing Saida Boj and Gehgeh, when in reality, their messages are worlds apart.

Saida Boj’s narrative often promotes the idea that women should depend on men for financial stability, encouraging laziness and entitlement. From normalizing transactional relationships to justifying infidelity when a man is financially incapable, her teachings create a mindset where money overshadows genuine love and commitment.

Gehgeh’s message, on the other hand, is rooted in responsibility, independence, and growth. He encourages men to work hard, invest wisely, and take care of not just their partners, but their families as well. His approach highlights that love and loyalty should not always be tied to money, and that men should value supportive partners who stand by them.

The striking irony is that while many women admire Gehgeh’s values and even wish for sons or brothers like him, they often hesitate to embrace those same principles in their romantic relationships. This contradiction only shows how deeply society sometimes misunderstands balance in love and finance.

Whether you are a man or woman, the lesson is clear: money is not gender-based. Everyone should strive to hustle, grow, and be independent. Building relationships on mutual respect, effort, and genuine love will always stand stronger than those built only on financial expectations.

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